From over-worked and frustrated to present, connected and in control
It sucks to feel burnt out or to have your relationships suffer because you’re trying to please everyone.
Transform your relationship with yourself and you’ll feel like the Universe is working for you rather than against you.
Here’s what you might secretly be wishing:
- That your partner would ask you on an impromptu date night AND you have the energy to show up (in heels) to actually enjoy it.
- That you wouldn’t have to feel guilty for not spending enough quality time with your partner, friends, dogs or children because you’d actually be spending quality time with them.
- That someone would give you a secret potion which would have you magically figure out what this thing called ‘life’ is, and how you can nail it.
- That it is possible to actually understand AND be living the concept of a ‘work-life balance’.
- That you could be the one who remembers a birthday AND gets spoilt on their own.
That you could be the ‘got it together’ woman you always dreamed of being.
And instead, this is your reality…
- You’re constantly worrying about what (or whom) you’ve forgotten.
- You wake up wondering how you’ll ever get through the day AND keep everyone happy.
- You know deep down you could do this, if only you could unjumble all the thoughts inside your head.
- You’re secretly so scared of cracking up and losing your relationships because you’re a hot mess who forgets stuff they’re supposed to remember because you DO care, you’re just too busy trying to keep everyone else happy to get it together.
- You’re trying to juggle everything, looking around wondering how everyone else seems to be superwoman.
You know you can’t sustain this, and are terrified of what’s going to happen when your friends and partner get fed up, you mess up at work, and find yourself alone in a crappy apartment with only your cats for company.
I empower modern, multi-tasking women take control of their lives so they can create loving and long-lasting relationships, without losing themselves in the process (no cats necessary).
For some people, there is a time in your life where breakthrough comes from breakdown. I was one of those people. I’d tried for so long to keep everyone happy – boyfriends, friends, work colleagues, parents. I should have seen the signs, but I was sure that I could push through it, if I just kept going.
The reality was that my Director at work, who was a family friend, approached my parents and told them I needed help because I wasn’t coping (cringe!). I had a major meltdown when my parents tried to ask what was going on but eventually managed to mutter something about not really eating and not really knowing what to do and wanting to end it all. It actually felt like such a huge relief to admit I didn’t have it all together anymore and I needed some help.
After a few months of intensive therapy, I slowly started to get to know myself. I was eating enough to walk up a flight of stairs without stopping to rest, and I wasn’t a complete bitch to anyone who dared say hello to me.
I had to do a lot of work to regain the trust of my colleagues, to feel like my friends wanted to hang out with me again, without being scared of me having a meltdown mid calorie-filled cocktail, and to trust myself in a relationship again. It was a really tough time.
I wish I’d have got help sooner.
We say that a lot in hindsight don’t we? I left it too long. I should have seen the signs. I wish…..
Please don’t let that be you.
I’m holding out a hand to you – I want to step in and support you before the burnout: before the cracks become valleys, before you let people down, and before you feel like you’ve lost. There’s no shame in that.
I want you to WIN AT LIFE!
I recently discovered I was co-dependent. I was drained and unhappy with myself and very resentful. But I thought that was something I have to accept and live with.
I feel like I am able to set and hold my boundaries a lot better than I used to. I feel bigger (figuratively) and I speak more authentically and more bold. Even my hand writing has gotten bigger!
The biggest question I had about this shift in my life was, “Will I still care for others?’ Now, I know it’s possible to be caring and empathetic to others while still caring for myself and doing what is best for me.
I got way more than I expected from the program. The last module was my favorite as I struggled with boundaries the most. It didn’t take me long to see a significant change in my ability to hold on to my boundaries.
This program will get you where you want to be if you are serious about changing. It’s worth it. It really creates the feelings of being free and light. At least that’s what it did for me. And I say thank you to God who brought me and Emma together.Milki
In this 12 week step-by-step programme, I will empower you to take stock of your life, what’s working and what isn’t, and give you the tools and strength to make changes that will support you, and your relationships, forever.
In my signature process we’ll:
- Learn how to stay in the room, even when things get hairy (so you can really show up for your life and relationships)
- Figure out the areas of your life that aren’t working, and how you’d like them to be instead
- Receive expert training to make those changes, and make them stick
- Be guided and held through the process of true transformation and inner growth, to show up as you were really meant to
- Get to know and embody the ‘Got It Together’ you and learn how she can help you have wildly successful relationships.
- Know how this woman communicates her needs and desires with love and grace. Become this woman.
- Integrate and fully embody this women so you feel in control and loved, forever.
Basically, we strip back all the old patterns, self-doubt, rules and restrictions you’ve been living under, and re-write the playbook.
You get to choose how you want to play your life.
We’ll design it to be fun, ease-filled and joyful, with loving and fulfilling relationships. I’m with you for every step to make sure you make it happen, your way.
“I definitely feel as if my energy has been shifting more positively.
“This programme has been an amazing journey for me. I’m uncovering some of the real impact some childhood events have had on me. Especially one in thing particular. I thought it had stayed in the past but I realized it had affected almost every aspect of my life. Thanks Emma you have been a wonderful support and the program presented itself at the perfect time in my life.”Milki
“It became clear to me that since we worked together, my CONFIDENCE has improved massively, I feel FOCUSED & CONNECTED especially since I am trusting in my INTUITION these days! Yep, slowly over the last few months I have been getting more in touch with myself. I have come to understand how I connect to this world. What I also realise is that I am most in tune with the world when I am in tune with MYSELF. Whenever I listen to my intuition I know how I truly, deeply, authentically feel about something. It’s powerful stuff!
So just wanted to say a massive THANK YOU for what you do, for your work and for being so AWESOME!”Antonina
How we do it & how I support you:
Six space-creating and results driven 121 sessions with me
Three power-workshops covering everything you need to know to take control (Staying in the room, Releasing judgment and embracing forgiveness and Boundaries and mindset)
Unlimited email support (office hours) for anything that comes up
A personally and intuitively chosen gift to support your journey
Personal Investment: £999 (around $1200)
(instalment plan and fast-action discount available)
It’s been my experience, and the experience of my clients, that this investment level creates an inevitable transformation because of the commitment you’re making to yourself, and the freedom, healing and expansiveness that takes place as a result of the work we do.
If this is feeling really good, and you’re ready to step in before things start to go horribly wrong, I would like to invite you book a complimentary alignment session with me.
We’ll spend 45mins identifying exactly where your challenges are, get you some clarity on them, what you can do NOW to help and I’ll give you my professional recommendation for your next steps.
Not sure yet?
Oh honey, I completely get it. Remember my brief period of insanity with the not eating and the being a bitch and lots of therapy? You’re super busy and you’re right, you DON’T have the time right now. Stick with me and read on for two minutes anyway…
Ever heard the Buddhist saying, ‘If you have time, meditate for ten minutes a day. If you don’t have time, meditate for two hours a day.’?
Feeling tired, fed up, worn down and irritable are exactly the reasons why you need to make this time for yourself, now, before it’s too late.
This is NOT a selfish act – this is an act of survival, for you, and your relationships.
How long do you realistically think you can keep going like this? A month? Six months? A year? When are your relationships going to start suffering, if they haven’t already?
The definition of insanity, as per Albert Einstein (who was, let’s face it, pretty darn smart), is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting different results.
How’s that working for you so far? Wouldn’t it be just freaking amazing to know that in a matter of weeks, you’ll have a completely new system in your life, more time to spend with those you love AND not feel like you have to be super woman all the time?
I’m offering you a way out here, because I’ve been where you are and it sucks, and there is a much better place to be in that’s filled with loving, long-lasting relationships, quality time for yourself and your loved ones, and space to breathe.
If that doesn’t sound good, no worries, I’m sure you’ll find a way that works for you, but if it does, I invite you to click below and schedule a complimentary alignment session with me today to get you some clarity and movement right away.
When I signed up for Clarity, Compassion & Confidence it felt like I was struggling with pretty much everything. I was stretched thin. Wanted to make changes personally, professionally and emotionally but didn’t know how. I was riddled in fears and semi aware of it but that terrified me more.I was just stuck in the no mans land of everything.
Having completed the program, I have rediscovered a sense of who I am and what I want to experience and achieve in my life. My focus is on creating/cocreating and achieving the intentions I put out in the world.
I honestly feel that anything I am interested in is possible. If my heart and desire are truly there, nothing can stop me from living a life I want and would be proud of.Emily
HERE'S TO WINNING AT LIFE!
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