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Growth

And as she wandered through the archives of her old soul, she realised what she was, what she was capable of, and how whatever she had created for herself had allowed her to blossom into the person she was today.
She was not perfect. She was flawed and felt things too much for some people, but she loved hard, laughed hard and did her best to be present to all the facets of her life, constantly looking for the good and learning from that which hurt her.
She still had much to learn, but being able to accept her insecurities, the parts of her which felt less than whole, less desirable, made her all the more able to reach new heights. Because accepting where we are now is the only way to create change

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The not-knowing

There is beauty and simplicity in the not-knowing:
in the moments before the clarity comes and you can pause,
suspended above the decision
without the consequences
breathing into the neutrality
trusting that you will know,
exactly when you need to know

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Actions over words

I can talk a good talk, but if my actions aren’t in integrity with what I’m saying, thinking and feeling, I have nothing, and people will feel that.

I make a lot of “mistakes” in the name of learning, but I also use those misaligned moments to recalibrate and choose another way.

Let’s choose to have our actions represent who we truly are, to show love rather than fear, and to help us heal rather than separate.
What’s come before is not now. What do you choose now? How can you choose to be more loving and authentic with yourself?

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Which wolf will you feed?

Which wolf will you feed?

Even through turbulent times, we must remain focused. We must remember why we do this, what we hope for, what we are grateful for, and what we love.

Love is the common ground. It is the key to all the happiness we have, and all the happiness that is flowing into our lives.
We can choose love, over and over again, regardless of the circumstances, regardless of the pain: we can ask to see with love. That is our choice. It is our blessing.

We can forget that for a minute, or maybe even years, but it doesn’t matter how long it takes us to remember, once we do, our lives change for the better.

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Remembering…

And just like that, she remembered who she was.
She found herself once more: the part she had lost in the rubble and the angst of other peoples’ pain.
And though the memory of her own pain was still fresh, she knew now that the strength and grace she once felt had never truly left her.
Picking herself back up, and letting go of the parts of herself and the people in her life who no longer offered her reciprocity for her love, she took her first tentative steps forward, learning to trust herself to be open again, one step at a time

Photo taken at: Wales

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Start by making yourself happy

Take that anyway you want, but happiness can and will only ever be an inside job. If you’re not happy, take responsibility and look at yourself and how you can make yourself happier.

P.s. I know this sounds easier than it often is, but that’s where loving yourself enough to ask for help and support comes in. More people than you think have felt how you’ve felt, you just have to be brave enough to ask

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Acceptance

Just because you care about people, doesn’t mean you have to be there for all of them. Friendship, relationships, interactions: they’re all an exchange of energy. If the energy exchange isn’t balanced, if boundaries are being crossed, it’s on you to make the changes you need to make to keep yourself balanced and happy. Do not blame someone else for your lack of boundaries.
Sometimes that means caring from a distance, sometimes it means challenging conversations, and sometimes it means walking away completely.
This does not make you a bad person. It doesn’t make you judgemental. It doesn’t mean you think you’re better than someone else.
It means you know yourself and what you need

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Is it worth it?

If you’re investing your time, love or energy into something or someone and it’s not making you happy, it’s time to withdraw your effort and put it into the people and things who value you and make you feel good

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